Sometimes, being a bridejila on yourself Marriage The day is just a rite to pass. Each bride deserves preferences or wants things in a certain way on her special day, but, how far is it? One bridegroom Asking himself, and reddit, after that question, his long -time friend requested that he dye his hair for his marriage.

A user, under name FINALE6666Took /Bridzilla Subreddit to share a text exchange between him, a bride, and his childhood friend, among the bride. The Text Exchange shows a message (possibly from the bride) which wrote, “I mean to mention and forget it …. Bridesmade dress is going to be a bright, deep red, so you may want to go back to black for a short time. Sorry to fuck your punk rock look.”

Her post includes another screengreb from her interaction with the bride in the next slide, characterized by another string texts.

“The second day we were in her place and she likes to ask about marriage and what we have decided so far and she was like complaining about why I want red clothes for bridesmaids as if she hates red color and hates red wearing red and hates red and she looks very terrible in it,” reads the first lesson. ,

The bride followed the message, “And as a subtle ‘shut up’ I mentioned how [redacted] Perhaps your hair will have to dye and she is on board with it. ,

In his caption, braidsmade, which is currently red hairShared his feelings about the request to get “some external approaches”.

“One of my old, very close friends is getting married next year. In the last few years, however, the way she talks to me, she can really come out of harsh or dismissal, and it’s reached the point where I sometimes seem to be on the eggs around her,” she wrote. “I am trying to keep those feelings aside, so I can be helpful during her marriage, but recently an exchange is sticking to me.”

Bridesmade explained that the bride made fun of her bright red hair before telling her sister that she had agreed to dye it into her natural color, black color, however, she never agreed to do so.

“It just felt as if she was taking a decision about me without asking, and she rubbed me in a wrong way,” she continued. “I don’t want to be dramatic, but I feel that maybe I still should attend her wedding, but not a bridesmaid. I will never ask my friends to change how they seek my big day, especially something personally as their hair. Is I uprooting it?”

A reddit user commented that she should build her ground and tell the bride that she felt that it was a joke and she would not have dying of her hair. “Wait for her next step,” the user advised. “When she says ‘no, I meant,’ you tell her that you are falling.”

Another commentator said how they stop a similar position by telling the bride to the cost of a salon trip and requests that she pays it. “I got to stop with ‘a brunette from a brunette from the blue back’, which starts at $ 300 in green, in a salon if you are ready to pay, we can book it!” We did not book it. ,

A hairdresser also weighed about the potential damage to his hair. “As a hairdresser you really can’t go back from black with any kind of integrity left in your hair. He doesn’t make a sound like a good friend.”