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The culture of live-in in our society is increasing greatly. Most of the youth are living in many cities like this. But when the breakup occurs, things change. How right or wrong is this relationship?
Girls are not accepted after a breakup in live-in relationship (image-canva)
Highlights
- Girls do not get married after a breakup in live-in relationship
- Middle class society is against live-in relationship
- Before staying in a live-in relationship, you must not consider many things
Impact of live-in relationship: The Allahabad High Court commented on the live-in relationship. The court expressed concern over the increasing cases of breakup in the live-in relationship and said that this makes women’s life difficult, they do not get a life partner easily while boys easily move on. They also get married. The middle class society has not been able to accept it even today. The Allahabad High Court made this comment by granting bail to the accused of sexually abusing the marriage by falsely promising the marriage. The court also said that he was fed up with such cases.
Psychiatrist Priyanka Srivastava She says that the relationship has a different effect on the boy and girl and the reason behind this is biological difference. Testosterone hormone levels are high in men. They get excited quickly but are not emotional. At the same time, girls have hormones named estrogen and progesterone in their body, which are less and less due to periods. These make girls more emotional. Girls connect more romantic and emotionally than boys. She comes closer to the partner for this reason because she feels comfortable but when she is a victim of breakup or deception, she is unable to handle herself and does not even connect with another person quickly. While boys easily move on and add a new relationship.
Middle class against this relationship
The youth may like the live-in relationship. It should also get approval from the court but the middle class family has not been able to adopt this concept even today. Indian middle class society is against this relationship. Even today, in our society, girls are taught from childhood that they have to get married after studying, to handle the kitchen, take responsibility of in -laws. Marriage is considered a sacred bond. In such a situation, if a girl stays in live-in, then the family does not support her. Children born in such a relationship are never able to connect with the mainstream of society. On the other hand, if the live-in partner breakup, then women have to raise children alone on their own by becoming single mother. Often men are not ready to marry such women.
Midil class family does not consider live-in as good (image-canva)
Our society is male dominated. Here parents start making different differences between boy and girl from childhood. The boy came home late, roamed out with friends, talk to girls on the phone for hours, party, parents never stop it. But the girl does not have the freedom to hang out, permission is not given to stay out of the house late at night, it is forbidden to stand on the choice or roof wearing clothes of her choice. Girls are kept locked in the boundary wall of the house so that they do not take any wrong steps and do not get infamous of parents. This difference forgives every mistake of boys and makes the girl’s mistake a crime. If the girl is in a live-in relationship, then she is considered bad. He is given the tag of characterless and crooks. When this thing spreads in the society, no boy wants to marry such a girl nor does any family want to make such a girl a daughter -in -law because they want Sharif and family daughter -in -law. While his boy himself has been in a live-in relationship.
Stay away from such boys
Living in live-in or not living, it can be a personal choice. If the partner plays together for life, it is not bad to live in live-in. But girls must pay attention to the boy’s behavior before being in a live-in relationship and should understand the red flag of this relationship. If the boy is repeatedly pressurizing the live-in relationship, then talk to him openly what he is thinking about this relationship. What is his future planning? If he tries to be physical again and again, then be careful. If you are in a live-in relationship and are charging all the expenses yourself, then it is a red flag. If the boy does not tell a friend about you, keep you away from your family members, similarly ask you to keep this thing secret, do not share your words with you, then understand, his intention is not right. Such a boy can cheat.
Active in Journalism Since 2012. Expertise in Lifestyle, Entertainment and Travel. Started career with all India radio. Also worked with ignou …Read more
Active in Journalism Since 2012. Expertise in Lifestyle, Entertainment and Travel. Started career with all India radio. Also worked with ignou … Read more
